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Exploring the Inner Critic: How It Impacts Self-Esteem (Part 1)
Recognizing the roots of the inner crtiic which leads to low self-esteem is the first step towards transformation. If your confidence has...
Deborah Pleasants
Apr 88 min read
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Understanding the Isolation of Poor Mental Health: How Counselling Can Make a Difference
One of the harshest aspects of mental health issues is that they rob us of the ability to believe that others might be suffering in the...
Deborah Pleasants
Mar 154 min read
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Reconnecting with Your Inner Child
Understanding the concept of the inner child is crucial for grasping the challenges we face in our relationships, both personal or...
Deborah Pleasants
Feb 164 min read
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Impacts of Parental Mental Health
Growing up with a parent who has a mental illness can profoundly impact one's emotional and psychological well-being. The coping...
Deborah Pleasants
Jan 256 min read
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Navigating Family Dynamics Over Christmas
Christmas is frequently depicted as a season of happiness, unity, and festivity. Yet, for many individuals, it can also highlight the...
Deborah Pleasants
Dec 7, 20244 min read
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Exploring the Benefits of Mindfulness
Mindfulness is a mental state attained by concentrating one's attention on the current moment, free from judgment. It involves being...
Deborah Pleasants
Nov 23, 20244 min read
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How Counselling Can Help Individuals with Adverse Childhood Experiences (ACEs)
Little Red Riding Hood What was her mother thinking of To send her daughter on her way Into the woods alone that day? Was she so busy...
Deborah Pleasants
Oct 23, 20243 min read
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The Dangers of People Pleasing: How to Break Free from the Cycle
Relying on others' opinions to affirm self-worth often stems from feelings of shame, such as believing one is not “good enough” or...
Deborah Pleasants
Sep 3, 20245 min read
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Setting up Private Practice
Are you a qualified counsellor and thinking of setting up private practice? Overwhelmed? Don't know where to start? Feeling a little...
Deborah Pleasants
Aug 1, 20243 min read
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How to Overcome Feelings of Shame and Move Forward in Your Life
Shame is a natural aspect of being human and is among the most painful emotions we encounter. When experiencing shame, you are likely...
Deborah Pleasants
Jul 4, 20244 min read
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How Can Your Value System Help Improve Your Self-Esteem?
Clients who approach me with low self-esteem frequently feel detached from their authentic selves. After exploring the reasons behind...
Deborah Pleasants
Jun 2, 20244 min read
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Navigating the Emotional Rollercoaster: How Counselling Understands Divorce
“Today, we turn to one person to provide what an entire village once did: a sense of grounding, meaning, and continuity. At the same...
Deborah Pleasants
May 2, 20244 min read
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Boarding School Syndrome
Boarding school is a familiar concept to me. My parents attended boarding school at age 7, some of my siblings started boarding at 11,...
Deborah Pleasants
Apr 2, 20245 min read
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Useful open ended questions in therapy
When used appropriately, open-ended questions are a vital tool that can enhance and deepen the counseling process. Asking questions in a...
Deborah Pleasants
Mar 4, 20244 min read
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Overcoming Birth Trauma
Childbirth is often depicted as the most magical experience in the world, and for some women, it truly is. However, for others, it can be...
Deborah Pleasants
Feb 7, 20244 min read
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How Depression Can Be An Ally
We live in a society where we think we can fix things, whereby everything has a solution. As an integrative counsellor, I use a variety...
Deborah Pleasants
Jan 27, 20243 min read
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